#DoBetter2018

A very talented light worker named @sirm00re on Ig wrote this well written letter to the "bros , & sistas if it applies" about what they should as well as shouldn't be doing in this new year , 2018. It's worth more than just a summary so it's posted below of course. Before you get to it though,a few things he mentioned are taking care of ALL your kids , hygeine (no one wants a dirtbag) ,taking care of mental health , dating tips etc . I REALLY appreciate post like this because it is literally putting the phrase "each one , teach one" to work . It's speaking up for what is right , knowing better to do/teach better, and holding people accountable for things we sometimes struggle with or just plain & simple don't want to face. 

Furthermore, it inspired me to write something to the ladies.

Wanna hear it ? Here it go.

Do as I say or Fuck you.

From as far back as I could remember , I think I yearned for family . I know that's probably like "what ?" with a confused look on your face , but I'm serious . I always wanted the idea of what I thought family was supposed to be.What I mean by this is , I saw how other families worked and quite frankly ... mine sucked lol.

Love is not..

Unfortunately I know this all too well ... Here's the thing about love , it doesn't leave you blind . You can see exactly what is coming your way usually . Often times we look pass it , so if we're looking pass it we see it, correct? we just choose not to. 

This one may be long as hell and even all over the place. Had to get this off my chest though.

Dating Frustrations..

I know in life we aren't supposed to rush things , but shiiidd look. I'm 28 years old now and some things just need to happen like me having my shit together A MOTHER FXCKING S A P .

Of course at some point I'll talk about actual things I need or plan to do to get my life on track at one point or another but for now I'll touch on dating .