#DoBetter2018

A very talented light worker named @sirm00re on Ig wrote this well written letter to the "bros , & sistas if it applies" about what they should as well as shouldn't be doing in this new year , 2018. It's worth more than just a summary so it's posted below of course. Before you get to it though,a few things he mentioned are taking care of ALL your kids , hygeine (no one wants a dirtbag) ,taking care of mental health , dating tips etc . I REALLY appreciate post like this because it is literally putting the phrase "each one , teach one" to work . It's speaking up for what is right , knowing better to do/teach better, and holding people accountable for things we sometimes struggle with or just plain & simple don't want to face. 

Furthermore, it inspired me to write something to the ladies.

Wanna hear it ? Here it go.

BEING SINGLE SUCKS

or does it ? ... 

I was thinking a lot lately about how the image of being single is literally ALWAYS negative especially as of late .

Disclaimer: 

I'm not out here as the president of the Single's club.I would LOVE to be in a relationship so yea I actively date .  I would love companionship , growth , and sex with ONE person . I'm not a casual kind of girl . I catch feelings , and become a wife overnight lmao sooooo I try to keep myself out of those situations that I know won't lead me anywhere good. Although I'm single and alone I am not lonely. People need to work on themselves until they understand the difference fully . They absolutely do not have to go hand in hand.

Dating Frustrations..

I know in life we aren't supposed to rush things , but shiiidd look. I'm 28 years old now and some things just need to happen like me having my shit together A MOTHER FXCKING S A P .

Of course at some point I'll talk about actual things I need or plan to do to get my life on track at one point or another but for now I'll touch on dating .